Thursday 6 June 2013

What is a Crush? and Why do we have a Crush?

Crushes

Why do I keep running from the truth?All I ever think about is youYou got me hypnotized, so mesmerizedAnd I just got to know
Do you ever think when you're all aloneAll that we can be, where this thing can go?Am I crazy or falling in love?Is it really just another crush?...
Hello peeps, let we talk about crush..and crush..I bet every people have one..Naaa..even the nerd ones :P
So, what is a crush actually? Do we really need to define it? I believe each person had their own definition on Crush. Hehe :)..A crush is a word used to describe special feelings you have for another person, a classmate or friend that you really like. Noticing your first crush is an exciting time in life because you're beginning to understand how it feels to like another person- a lot! Sometimes, feeling for a crush can be confusing because they're new to you and you aren't sure how to act. You could have a mixed feeling. Perhaps, a mixed signals? Gosh...i hate mixed signals.
Every time you see your crush, a part of you might feel embarrassed and you might want to run away and hide. Another part of you might imagine your crush noticing you and sharing the same feelings. Ouch, i always do this :)For me, Crushes are a little bit like the romantic love adults feel toward one another. And in a way, a crush can help us think about the kind of person that we want to love when we grow up. They help us understand which qualities we notice and like in another person and maybe a few that we don't like?

But, for me..i know i have crush on someone when:
1. I don't know him, but i feel nervous whenever i see him. My face feels hot and cheeks get red. Auww~2. Both of us like a same game, listen to the same music, eat ice cream with chocolate chips (Just Imagine). How could anyone else have so much in common?3. Everyday I stalks his profile, his picture, want to know his daily routine. Getting obsessed4. When i listen to song, automatically he will appear in my mind.


I still clearly remember, I have a crush on our school Football Keeper. No need to mentioned his name here. He so adorable and look so stunning in field. Gosh, he look so handsome and cool in Police Cadet Uniform too. Every time i saw he, then i will start to sing. Hahaha. Foolish huh? Well, that one is old time story. No need to drag out too deeper...


This is true? Huh.





You can't choose your crushes. Sometimes they sneak up on you and your response?Wow? Who was that? It might be a classmate, a neighbor, an older kid, a young boy ( well, its me), a friend of your brother, or a teacher at your school. It could even be on someone like an athlete or celebrity?You might find yourself telling a good friend about that special person you like so much. Crushes might last a few days, weeks, months or longer. Hihi.
Well...the hardest part is how to get that special person attention? Some people might chase their crushes around the school, call or text them and tease them to get attention. Some person might loves this, but this action also might make a person feel uncomfortable. Have you ever felt this way? Like you annoyed them? Make them feel uncomfortable with you? I know, it hard to control how you feel, but that doesn't mean you have the right to force them. If your crush doesn't want to talk with you or it seems like you're making the person uncomfortable, it's time to leave them space.

But what if you find out that he or she likes you too? Woah..it's a wonderful feeling. But sometimes it doesn't work out that way. You might feel sad, dissapointed and rejected. That sad feeling is called heartbreak. If you feeling heartbreak, those feeling can last for a while but they will fade away one day. Trust me. I have been in there :)

P/S: Crushes are new and exciting, so enjoy them while they last. Someday, you'll be telling your own kids about your first crush!
    
Credit to: http://kidshealth.org/kid/feeling/thought/crushes.html#Thank You.

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